::Let Me Clear My Throat::

I've never made secret the fact that I am a rubenesque woman. Tho I'm not exactly proud of all this extra phatness, I'm generally comfortable in my own skin, and seem to do okay with the opposite (and sometimes same) sex.  Or so I thought. You may remember, oh, about a dozen posts or so I talked about men and how they relate to me as a bigger woman.  I mentioned that men tend to think just because you're big, automatically that makes you desperate, and in turn, easy. Yes, some men need to be educated...and maybe hit with a blunt object, but that's niether here nor there.  Anyway, so I've noticed that I've run into a problem. I have no problems attracting men. They flock to me, in fact. The problem lies in the fact that I seem to be good enough to sleep with, but not good enough to actually date .  That, in itself, is kind of a mindfuck if you think about it-'Ok, so you find me attractive, you think I'm awesome as a person, you text me 100 times a d

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  I will freely admit that I am the reigning Queen of fucked up relationships.  I mean, everyone has one or two by the time they hit my age, but mine have literally defined my whole life.  After that, emotional baggage just kinda comes with the territory, but in order to move on, it's mandatory to travel light.  This, of course, is just MY way of looking at things, and I can't speak for everyone else...but I CAN speculate and wonder how the fuck people think the way they do if their outlook differs. Case in point:   I was involved in a conversation with a man today whom I know well.  This particular man desperately wants to find true love, but is convinced he has too many past relationship 'issues' right now to be able to fully let someone in and fill that void.  That being said, this man has had exactly what he's been hoping for literally right in front of him for months, but couldn't see past his 'issues' to recognize his good fortune.  It should al